
Elizabeth came to us and asked if we needed our laundry done, or dishes washed, or house cleaned. No, no, we told her. Again, we were planning on that for next year and someone who is experienced (she had never had a job). But then we decided that if she didn’t know how to do anything, we could teach her to do things the way we like them done. So we started her in the kitchen and bathrooms. We taught her how to wash dishes, how to dry them, how to clean a bathtub, toilet, and sink, how to clean floors, how to dust. These are all things that she had never done before. She had no idea, but she learned.
Just before we left last November, we drew up a contract and had them sign it, giving all of our expectations for them. Western works 8 hours a day for 5 days each week and Elizabeth works 4 hours a day for 5 days each week.
One of my questions was, “Why do we need a maid every day? In the U.S. you only need to clean once a week.” I imagine some people living in the western states might understand, but there is dust everywhere here. If the dining room table isn’t dusted once a day, there is a layer of dust on it. Even with the floors being cleaned, washed, and polished, there is still dust on them a few hours later. Outside, there is always plenty for Western to do. With an acre of yard, plants, grass, garden, etc, he is always busy. He has great initiative too, that if he sees something needs to be done, he does it without being asked.
Why do we consider this ministry? With their lack of experience, taking on Western and Elizabeth has been more work for us than if we just did it ourselves. We are constantly teaching them how to do things. Because of their lack of vocational skills, we want to empower them that in the case we decide not to have them work for us, they would be hirable elsewhere. We want them to be competent enough to be able to get work if we ever decide to get someone else. At his previous job, Western was working 6 days a week and made $80 per month. This is a typical salary for a gardener. That’s not a typo; $80 per month. Not only is this extremely, extremely low, but especially low in a country where it is three times more expensive to live in than the U.S. When they started with us, we raised his salary (plus only 5 days per week, instead of 6) and paid Elizabeth, so they are a lot better off than before. It is now fair and better than other domestic workers, but still not great. We will raise it in time, but to be honest, they have never made this much in their lives and they don’t have good financial skills. We will work with them in this area and once they have more understanding on planning and financial sense, then we will raise their salaries. We also give them a food hamper each month (worth about $40-$50), containing basic food and toiletry items they will need for the month. We also gave them work clothes for both and boots for Western (as seen above), so their own clothes don't get dirty. JM2Z covers the wages and food hampers, which has always been in the budget, as previously stated.
As I stated toward the beginning, their English skills aren’t the best. Western’s is better than Elizabeth’s, but there are still communication struggles from time to time. Last year I bought a tree limb clippers and asked Western to trim some branches that were overgrown and where multiple trees were growing together. He did a good job and so I asked him to trim branches on a bush that was overgrown. I went outside later to see the bush had been cut down to a stump. Needless to say we had a good laugh, but now have learned to communicate better. They are perfect to practice my Shona with. So, I speak in Shona as much as possible with them. It is great to practice with them as I am learning the language. Yolanda can understand everything they say in Shona, even if she can’t respond in Shona 100% of the time (although she can mostly say what she needs to).
One of our goals this time around was to spend some much needed time with Western and Elizabeth in helping them create a budget for themselves and have some sort of financial planning and understanding – something that is foreign to most people at their economic level. Once we have done that, we hope to increase their salary at an amount that seems more reasonable to us. This financial planning has caused some problems between them already. While we were away (stateside) they had some conflict and Janeece contacted a counselor we had met to meet with them for at least 2 sessions (which JM2Z covered). Clearly they are both also very young, so some of their lack of knowledge is due to maturity and this is most often seen in Elizabeth. In the beginning (and even now at times), she will go have her hair done at a salon (a weave and style), which literally will be a week’s salary for her. Of course this is not a judgement call, but in the beginning the “little” they made seemed so much to them that how money was spent was clearly not in a wise way. Please pray for us to minister to them with compassion and patience because at times it can be trying. It is true that it is better to be a blessing than to be blessed… we are learning this firsthand.
We wanted you to be aware of Western and Elizabeth, but were a little hesitant. We didn’t want you to get the impression that we are living the high life, but rather to understand that this is cultural. Sometimes we wish we didn’t have anybody here, but realize that God gave us Western and Elizabeth to teach, empower, and love.